failure…

I’ve always considered the connections between our bodies and our lives. It’s just part of how I’m wired I suppose. It’s what makes me mrs metaphor.

In my work with developing DoxaSoma I often will tell people that their “core” area, the abs, glutes, lats, all the muscles that wrap around you and keep you upright if those muscles are strong, their core is in the body what the community is in life.

If our “core” is strong (in both aspects) then no matter what is thrown at us we will be able to move through it, we will be able to stand. If it is not strong we will fold and fall to the floor. This is the way we move in our bodies, this is the way we move in the community.

I was thinking today about the process of “failure” though. When we’re strength training we find the failure point and back away from it to find out how far to go. A muscle that is asked too much WILL fail if we go too far, too fast. There must be time to build and time to heal from the work we do. We aim toward working hard enough to fatigue but not fail. When the muscle rests it knits itself back together, stronger.

What happens in the muscle though is fascinating. If we push the muscle fibers to fatigue and then give them time to heal they come back stronger, not just in the fiber but in the WORKING too…the next time I ask that muscle to lift that same weight it’s not just the same group of fibers that respond. The muscle remembers and it “recruits” new fibers to come alongside. The muscle fibers begin to work better together, for the good, to lift the weight and then to become stronger.

Muscles will fail, people will fail…if placed in isolation and given too much weight…but in community, with rest and healing and wisdom…we are building strength and endurance, we work together and then become stronger. We are the muscles, we are the core.

It’s a good design and an apt metaphor.

freedom of choice…

I read a great article today about the link between reforming “big insurance” in this country and the effect that might have on “big food.”

I admit, I’m fairly “crunchy” especially where food is concerned. My kids will groan, even after all this time, about my resistance to buying anything with High Fructose Corn Syrup. They plead with me to buy Mrs Butterworth’s instead of maple syrup. Their friends so often will eat pancakes here DRY instead of even trying the “healthy stuff.”
I don’t care. No skin off my nose. Honestly.

The argument against regulation of “big food” I heard today from a friend was that he didn’t want the government to tell him what he could and couldn’t eat. He wanted them to just give him the information and let him figure it out.

While I agree that “personal responsibility” is vital in all of this I disagree that the government should not care about what is in our best interest. Limiting the power that agribusiness currently wields in this country is not “restricting” us as people, it is looking after OUR best interest first, not the best interest of big business.

One argument I heard as well was that families just need to be responsible for educating their kids and exerting their influence on the next generation. AGREED…yes! Totally!
and
I educate my kids all day long, literally…I talk about good health, taking care of our bodies, eating the right fuel. I feed them the right fuel. I am doing my job.

So then, my kids go to a tutorial one day a week and they bring pocket money…you know what they buy? CANDY.
You know why?
It tastes really really really really good.

They don’t make the choice to confound me or rebel. I let them pick what they want with their pocket money. I don’t harp on them about it, I don’t demonize Reeses cups. They pick it because
1)it’s there
2)it tastes really really really really really good.

So, there you go, years of home education and they are still going to pick what tastes good and is available.

I’m not saying the government should outlaw candy, no way, no how. But if, like cigarettes we find that it’s toxic? Yes, there should be a limit of some kind.

When I was a kid I could buy cigarettes out of a machine and I did. I was 14. It was “illegal” but nobody noticed and so I did it. I did it because
1) it was available
2) I really really really liked the taste (now, not so much, blech…)

My point and I do have one…I do not automatically look at new legislation as “restricting my freedoms.” Maybe that’s why I’ll always be closer to Democrat than Republican in my views. I just choose first to look at how new legislation SERVES me rather than limits me. I’m not afraid of the government because even after 8 years of George W. Bush I STILL believe that the leadership of this country is us…and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth…

a moment…

this space will not contain my wild ramblings today.

this is moment of quiet
for lives lost
and significantly altered
on this day
8 years ago.
may we always remember.

Teaching our Children well…

My 12 yr old would ask me if I didn’t let her watch an 18 minute speech in class from the President of the United States...I wonder what parents who object and keep their kids home will tell their kids if they ask.

“It’s not safe.”
“We’re protecting you”
“We don’t like this president”
“We’re afraid of what he will say to you”
“We’re afraid he wants you to think the way he thinks”
“We’re afraid he’ll turn you into a socialist”
“We disagree with the president on his policies so he isn’t fit to speak to you about staying in school.”

??

Really. What will people tell their children?

too much, too soon…

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At the risk of completely embarrassing myself I am going to post a song by my old band, Vertigo in Children (hello, 1987) recorded in our basement on Roscoe Avenue in Chicago. I dunno… I mean, the quality sucks, I’m horribly flat MOST of the time and I was a pack a day smoker back then (which accounts for the Brenda Vaccaro quality of my voice) but still…it’s like old family photos. It’s fun to take out and show once in a while.

Listen to it turned up loud. This is back in the days before digital. We recorded this puppy on a Tascam 4 track. gah.
Too Much Too Soon

Vertigo in Children
1985-1992
formed in Dayton, Ohio at Wright State University
Primary Band Members
Angela Doll: vocals
David Lane: keyboard/programming
Gregg Childress: guitar/bass

Additional bandmembers joined in 1987
Jackie Spencer: keyboards
Jill Armstrong: vocals